Yo! Guys! Listen up, this list is for us men so pay good attention! God has lent us the football of marriage and we've fumbled it over to Satan far too many times. Think being a gentleman is oldschool? Think again! I may be an oddball, I may have more gal friends than guy friends, but I try to do my best to understand the ladies and treat them kindly. Problem is, the ladies have been hurt so many times, that they've had to build a wall of defense around their heart so they won't feel hurt, when in reality, they've already felt hurt from a dumb guy in the past. So it's up to us guys to live in God's Word and live out truth.
SO! Let's get back that Football of Marriage/Relationships from the Devil and rush it back for a Touchdown! Take that Knuckle Curve and hit it for a Grand Slam. Intercept that basketball and Swish that 3 point, half-court bomb! Let's have the heart of shining armor, and shine our light on the girls heart, freeing her from the shackles of the Wicked Witches' castle! Let's be winners again in the eyes of the women so that they can trust us again and that we can treat her heart with love, care and appreciation until the day we die! Love is an action, not a thing! LET'S DO IT RIGHT THIS TIME. One more wave of gentlemen before the God brings the rapture.
TO MY FUTURE WIFE
♥ To every guy that said, "Sex can wait"... (And it will! Cross my heart)
♥ To every guy that said, "You're beautiful"... (And I mean it, don't just think it doesn't mean anything)
♥ To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her... (I will drive from East to West if need be)
♥ To every guy that gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down... (Comfort food, for your soul and body)
♥ To every guy who has given her flowers just because that's how he rolls... (I know exactly what things to get at the Christian Book store even if it isn't flowers)
♥ To every guy that said he would die for her... (I might be scared, but I will be a protector, that's how I roll!)
♥ To every guy that really would... (I will defend for you future wife)
♥ To every guy that did what she wanted to die for... (I'll do every thing I physically can)
♥ To every guy that cried in front of her... (I am a very emotional guy)
♥ To every guy that she cried in front of... (My arms are held open wide)
♥ To every guy that holds hands with her. (No doubt about it)
♥ To every guy that kisses her with meaning.. (When the time comes, you don't even hafta ask)
♥ To every guy that hugs her when she's sad... (Arms wide open)
♥ To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all... (Often and will)
♥ To every guy who would give their jacket up for her... (Take my jacket, I don't get cold easily, even if i did I still would)
♥ To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe... (Fingers are on the call button!)
♥ To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes... (Me tired? HARDLY!)
♥ To every guy that would give his seat up... (I would)
♥ To every guy that just wants to cuddle... (Cuddling is almost second nature)
♥ To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what... (Don't even question me when I say it, b/c i mean it)
♥ To every guy who told his secrets to her... (Semi-Open secret policy in this guy)
♥ To every guy that showed how much he cared through every word and every breath...(Seriously, my heart will flutter when I see or talk to you)
♥ To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one... (All the time)
♥ To every guy that believed in her dreams... (GO FOR IT!)
♥ To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them... (Anything possible)
♥ To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams... (If it's a funny REM Sleep Dream, I'll laugh, if it's serious I WILL LISTEN)
♥ To every guy that walked her to her car and opened the door... (Don't tell me not to either)
♥ To every guy that gave his heart... (God gave His for me, so why shouldn't I for any person?)
♥ To every guy who prays that she is happy even if he's not with her... (That will always be in my prayer even if i don't verbalize it)
Put away your heart of lust and conquer your flesh. Don't pay attention to worldly lusts and seek to have a heart of compassion, trust and faith in God and to the women. Let's do this often so that your future wife/g/f or just best girl friend knows that they are in the best of care, so the divorce rate will plummet and the devil will ultimately be crushed by the family. When the family is strong, the devil will fall! It won't be perfect, it won't be easy, but God never said it would be!
And you girls, we nice guys are out there, just watch for us, don't just say you don't think we're right for each other before you get to know us. Get to know us and see the real us first, then make your decision. So please, give us a chance. I value God and all of my friends and family and I value you all too, especially the ladies. Help us to make that goal, that touchdown, the 3 point bomb, the GRAND SLAM, together we can make America and the world a family centered society once more!
Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore. And because of this, there are not many left out there. I guarantee 90% of the men on your page will not repost this because they care more about their image.
- If you are a nice guy, repost this in your journal with the title: "Nice guys STILL finish last";
- If you are a girl that thinks every guy should treat a girl this way, repost this in your journal with the title: "To Every Guy".
Because that's how it should be.
got this from and i thought it was sweet so im spreading it around!